1. Me: 17 people have clicked attend for dave’s “party” tonight and some of them were invited to mine and haven’t said anything
    2. Patrick: should have said it was your birthday
    3. Me: should have said it was in memory of my friend who is no longer with us.
    4. Patrick: that would just make it horribly awkward
    5. Me: I no longer care whether anyone has fun as long as I’m validated